恭敬不如从命

恭敬不如从命 [gōng jìng bù rú cóng mìng]

1. ■ It is better to accept deferentially than to decline courteously (on accepting gifts, etc. from one's elders).; Obedience is better than politeness.; Obedience is a better way of showing respect than outward reverence. We'd better do as he asks instead of standing on ceremony.; It's better to do as sb. asks instead of standing on ceremony.; The best way to show respect is to obey.